Monday, March 7, 2016

The Five Love Languages

The five love languages are:
·         Words of Affirmation
·         Quality Time
·         Receiving Gifts
·         Act of Service
·         Physical Touch
I was not surprised to see that I scored 8 in quality time. I love spending time with my husband and family. When I am with my husband as long as we are in the same room, I am happy. We do not need to be doing the same thing since we both are in school and one of us could have homework. I do not like being alone. He was gone for an entire summer and it was the longest summer I had ever had because my husband was two hours away.
            I scored six on all three:
·         Words of Affirmation
·         Acts of Service
·         And Physical Touch
I was surprised that these all added up to the same amount of points, but wasn’t surprised that they were my second highest. I like feeling loved and hanging out with my husband and family. I have saved every card and letter from the time we first started dating. I have all the letters he wrote me when he was over in Iraq. When we first started dating, he started a journal with little poems in it.
I feel loved when my husband does things without asking. He will clean the house sometimes so I do not have to worry about after working a 10 hour work day. He makes sure he has supper done or almost done when before I get home from my long work day.
We hold hands when we are in the car and when we are shopping or just walking around. We will give each other a hug and kiss before leaving for work.

I scored a 4 on gift giving. I would rather spend time with someone than to get a gift. I like receiving them, but I like giving gifts more. I love shopping for everyone. It bugs me at Christmas time when we cannot get gifts for everyone because we are doing a secret Santa thing.

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